How Parents Can Assist a College Student in Transition
Encourage self-reliance while acting as a safety net
A big transition such as coming to college inspires excitement, wonder, and feelings of connection and unity. Everyone deals with change differently. Occasionally people experience periods of stress, sadness, or fear. Each of us has the ability to handle our hard times through our own self-care or coping systems.
Stay connected and provide supportive encouragement
Write an email or a letter, call, and remember special occasions. Care packages are welcome anytime. Make sure to get involved in the Parent's Association! Praise accomplishments and be enthusiastic about your student's goals.
Provide balance
Students may not realize that while their transition may be uncomfortable, it is temporary and they will likely flourish in time.
Encourage active involvement in campus clubs and activities
College-sponsored activities, student groups, and individuals throughout the University provide opportunities for students to meet and enjoy themselves outside of classes. Music and dance performances, photography exhibits, slide shows, poetry and fiction reading, yoga, lectures, panel discussions, plays, talent shows, and numerous campus sponsored clubs all serve to bring students together.
